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I have a question. My girlfriend of nearly 5 years left me after me being to toxic, blaming her for everything and yelling at her. Not giving her room to express herself etc. She has a big anxiety about not seeing our daughter more than half thhe time and might want to fix our relationship just because of that. Should I take her back? Either way this life changing course will be executed if I get in.

Is it okay to miss her while I'm bettering myself? Sometimes, I could be doing something in my day, and boom, all of a sudden, I wanna talk to her. Or I feel blue because I can't. Is that normal?

Safety 1st

How do I actually start the conversation? We talk but only practical stuff regarding our daughter.

This resonates so hard with me. Hopefully it isn't too late for me. But if it is, I know the changes I make for myself well help for the next relationship. Thank you for this content.

Wonderful we need more of this please, for the people who cannot join

Have not even watched yet, but I am super excited for this week's video,!

Thank you so much for this! I have been watching the first part for a while and I am not even close to experiencially understanding it and I do acknowledge that it takes time to fully understand it. I watched this video to see if I can have some sort of clarity and boy you did not disappoint me. Welcome back, G!

Wife has been having an affair and were now seperated for over 6 months. She tells me there is no chance of us getting back together and to just move on. Found out this guy is now coming over to her apartment unannounced with my daughter there. She continues to say we are getting a divorce amd thata not changing amd to leave her alone. Where to from here.

Really hoping I’ll be lucky enough to get into the program. But in the meantime I watch these videos religiously.

Although I am not able to afford the program I indulged in the volume of content. I took notes, looked within, and started working on myself. This is the 1st time in my life I did something for myself. About a month ago my wife and I separated it lasted about 3 weeks. In that time I was able to do just enough for her to notice my internal shifts. I am working on myself everyday, I am not a finished product, but I am not and will not be the same product I once was. thanks to Geoffrey and his form of communication, I now see where I went wrong in the past. I hope to be able to afford the class soon. If you're serious about changing for yourself he's your guy!!!

Agree and am taking notes on the process to untether...and related, Timing and cadence of communication--is there guidance on how long is OK to not be in communication or how to reach out? Wife does pullbacks and currently is minimal contact with me unless I reach out. Thoughts?

Great video. Videos are very helpful for people not in your program.

Thank you so much ☀️

Its here!!! Long awaited!!

Watching this tonight. Been applying Gs advice and one other gentleman on here who I found very helpful as well. And these are the before and current results: Situation: 6 months separated, live in separate homes, she slowly put her guard up more and more Two days ago we had a small “discussion”, I understood her but couldn’t just let her call me names either so I clarified my boundaries. It is the first time in these six months and probably the last two years we emotionally connected to where we were both in tears by the calls end. She wanted to schedule another call, but that can wait until we next see one another. My point? These processes, ideas, and communication tactics do work but you have to put in the time and practice practice practice them. Every day. Even when things seem to improve keep practicing it because you never know when you gotta hit that three on the final buzzer

If I am being honest I think the biggest issue I have faced is sticking to stuff and mindsets . I make the shifts and align my thinking with them for a week or so but eventually as life goes by I sort of get complacent and forget about em and eventually end up back in my old ways of thinking since they feel more natural to me . I guess that’s why a community is important as well to keep u committed to stick to this journey. What do you think one can do stay more focused on these processes if we are not in a community

One theme that I am taking away from this is that you cannot bullshit yourself into any sort of change if ur making claims in ur head that deep down you know are untrue that shit is never going to work . U have to talk to yourself as if you are actually debating with another third party person and come up with genuine valid reasons for everything. I guess this is why mantras and stuff do not really work because most of us don’t believe the statements anyways so what’s repeating it 500 times a day gonna do ? Nothing

Do I text her ? And try to talk to her ? We’ve been talking I person and they are emotionally everywhere , but she tells me it’s okay I promise it’ll be okay relax . I’ve been the one being really selfish and just being one sided in a bad way . She’s very hurt and don’t trust me to fix anything because of my broken promises . I’m trying my heart out and putting effort in letting her know hey I messed up and I know I was very one sided etc .. she just tells me she’s scared and out loud when she said “ he changed this time “ she said it don’t sound believable. I really never help We’ve been dating for 4 years and been broken up for 2 weeks now Little no contact through text but if I call she’ll answer and if she’s home she’ll let me go by to talk … I don’t want to lose her and I’ve changed my mindset from the follower to the leader mindset . She has been the one loving and caring to save this relationship by herself it was me being blind and naïve and not seeing it until she really said not this time . I kept running from our problems and leaving and not caring how she felt and left her alone ..

Found out wife contacted ex, on paper he’s better. Says she doesn’t know if she wants to be in marriage. In Feb found out she’d been having a 6 month emotional affair with him and we were supposed to work on things. Don’t know how to act day to day.

What do you do if regardless of your actions you still can feel the lack of respect from your partner? I know that respect is something that is earned so I’m tempted to just keep watching the videos and implementing the internal shifts to the point that it doesn’t matter anymore. But when do you know it’s time to move on?

Was waiting for this one with bated breath. You sir are a modern philosopher.

This guy is a complete SIMP. Don’t listen to him. You are just wasting your time and money. Focus on being yourself and if your woman cant play her role or part then have some balls and move on. This guy wants you to validate the woman..you will lose everytime

In the video you discussed focusing on the process instead the individual situation. Can you explain the process for practicing the frameworks? What are the frameworks? I’m really struggling with empathy and understanding my partner. It’s lead to alot of misunderstandings

We’ve been worried for 3 weeks! We missed you my guyyy!! Thanks for this videooo!

Ready to learn!

Love from india

We all waiting for it thank you so much sir

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So right now, me and her are in the no contact period. But I left off the last convo we had by telling her to just block me until she's ready. Is there any chance she comes back?

I don't agree to keep the door open. For a little yes. But not a long time. If the door is always open there is no need for her to come back. You have to do things and keep busy so she has time to feel what is he doing. Is it another woman?

my girlfriend told me she doesnt love me 3 years ago today.

This is another gem. Seems like this was early on in Geoffrey's client interviews, I'm glad he continues to do them.

Great content here. well done

Thx Geoffrey! I am still working hard to enroll the program. That's why i don't understand what is the RIGHT process we need to tether with😅?

Trying to join the Facebook group but the link isn't working for me

Thankyou . I can relate to jason storie here . Its so inspiring for me to listen to atm. Wrking om my listening skills towards her n undrstanding the way she is fir me is something to work towards

Is it possible that some women just get bored and have no morals.

The statistics shows that men initiate Marriage and women initiate Divorce 😢 There has to be some truth what this guy is saying. Many say the woman wants things their way and that may not be necessarily true. Women want to be emotionally connected to their spouse. However, some men are emotionally unavailable to understand the needs of a relationship outside of the norm. The words have to at least align with the actions that are being produced otherwise it causes confusion. Many don’t really put in the effort to water the marriage to make it grow. They become lazy lovers who sell false promises. Then when the woman continue to address things it’s not her nagging she is begging to bond with you in a different level. It’s beyond the provider, supporter, breadwinner mindset. We are partners it’s a team

What do you do when your wife leaves you and gives you the whole, it's not you it's me and I've changed?

I find this hard to agree with and follow. My wife left me after 14 years and gave me nothing but clichés, I love you but I'm not in love with you, it's not you its me, I've changed. I had to leave my family home and three kids to move into my mam and dad's home who both have cancer, my kids stay here 50% of the time but it's such a difficult living arrangement. I'd been out a week and she had the entire family home redecorated, wall paper stripped, now appliances, wardrobes the lot. She's right she's changed and isn't the woman I once knew and loved. I've decided to let her come to me, but when I do I keep it strictly about the kids even when she goes off topic, I don't see why I should be acting excited to see her when she's ruined my life and didn't even have a genuine reason for doing so. The no contact rule helps me move forward and get over her and if she decides she's made a mistake it's her job to come back. Christ if we even do txt along these lines we get about three txts in and she's clamps me down, you then spend the rest of the day miserable and feeling like a mug

Hey Geoffrey, I'm really loving your content and it really makes me realise what I can do. I admit I am clearly not untethered yet but I am in the process of becoming untethered. Yet I find it very difficult to become untethered especially in my relationship that is falling apart, and I feel like even if I try to do the right things that do come from my heart of opting for what is from love and not from anger, my partner doesn't seem to receive any of the good that I am trying to do differently and better. He has completely shut down and slipping away from me. I remember in your free guide about how to create safety, even if I do it, my partner doesn't want to talk even weeks after a negative event happened and we just keep on sweeping issues under the carpet because we are not able to discuss them. He completely shuts down and I can't reach him. I have tried my best to give him peace, create stability and safety that I haven't given before. But we also need to discuss issues that keep on collecting and undermining the relationship more, and I don't know how to do any of these changes alone without hearing his part, e.g. I can't regain my trust in him if he doesn't speak at all.

I wish I saw this short months ago. I heard you say it in a longer video but watching it on loop for 20 minutes really let it set in my subconscious.

I thought the whole point of a boundary was that someone cannot cross it. Period. So at that point, why should we remain calm enough to ask questions as in, what’s the point of questions at this stage if a unbreakable boundary has been broken?

What if she reach out again and breaks up with you saying she hope you find someone that treats you well. But you don’t want anyone else just her

I watch alot of different coaches and you’re my favorite

It feels like limited contact was the low hanging fruit on examples to demonstrate change. If someone blocked you and said leave them alone and your inner don’t overlap you have more limited options. I understand what I have to do. And where my past behaviors caused her to go into self-preservation. But if you don’t have an opportunity to get shut down it’s challenging to show you’re different.

Hormones are an excuse. Men also have hormones, but emotionally mature men don't let those dictate our behavior or the way we treat our wives. Women who use hormones as an excuse to avoid taking responsibility for the contempt with which they treat their husband, are emotionally immature. The root cause is ingratitude. Women who withhold affection no longer value their husband or what he brings to the table. It's that simple. Bottom line: A man cannot make his wife happy; a woman's happiness depends on her taking responsibility for her own self awareness, her own feelings, her own actions. Women who blame their husbands for their unhappiness, short of physical abuse, are acting like children